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Our ethos at Patchwork is about getting the things you really crave – and a major part of this is actually being able to ask for what you want. That’s why we’re so thrilled to be talking to Tiwalowla Ogunlesi, life coach and founder of Confident and Killing It, on the blog today, as part of our series interviewing women in business to celebrate our new business shower templates.

Who are you and what do you do?

I’m Tiwalola Ogunlesi, I’m a life coach specialising in positive psychology, international speaker, podcast host and the founder of Confident and Killing It. After struggling with self-doubt and a very negative mind as a teenager, I’m now on a mission to help women and girls love and believe in themselves. Making a positive impact in the world, showing up as my true authentic self and prioritising my wellbeing are things that I really value in life. When it comes to my personality, I like to say if Oprah and Beyoncé got together and had a baby, I would be the result of that powerful combination.

My business Confident and Killing It is a purpose driven organisation that wakes women up to their worth so they can be confident, unstoppable and dare to live the life they truly desire. Through engaging workshops, coaching sessions, podcasts and community meet ups, I equip women with the tools they need to overcome fear and self-doubt, programme their minds for success and take action in life. Since starting in 2017 I’ve upskilled thousands of women all over the world and delivered engaging experiences for brands/organisations such as Google, Facebook, The Times, Deloitte, Morgan Stanley, UN Women UK, and The Oprah Winfrey Leadership Academy.

Tell us about the start of your business journey.

In 2015, months into that first job after university, I felt a bit lost and unfulfilled. I was working in an industry I was not passionate about and it began to affect my mental health. There was deep unfulfillment that came from being stuck in a job I hated. In the back of my mind, I knew there had to be more to my life than living on autopilot.

In a search for a more fulfilling life, I began volunteering as a Youth Leader with a group of twenty 15 year old girls. As I was mentoring these girls, I realised they all had the same issues I had as a teen. And then it struck me – there’s this generational cycle of low self esteem in women and girls and something had to be done about it.

I started my self-love journey at 21 and I saw the immediate impact it had in my life. I got access to so much love, peace, joy and CONFIDENCE that I wanted every woman and girl to have access to that same power that comes from believing in yourself and owning your story. I started off making inspirational videos on instagram for about a year and when I saw how valuable people found it, I started putting on community events in different countries and then a movement was born.

Fast forward to December 2019, I made the big decision to quit my day job to run Confident and Killing It full-time. My original business plan was to run in person workshops with organisations and personal coaching for women in my community. When I left my job, I had no bookings or clients lined up but I gave myself 3 months to build my reputation and secure the bag. Things were going well until March happened, lockdown happened, and everything got cancelled.

I started getting cancellation email after cancellation email after cancellation email. People were just nervous and scared. No one knew how this was gonna play out. And so every single thing I had booked got cancelled. I had quit my full time job with three months worth of savings and I was quickly coming to the end of my savings. March was meant to be one of my busiest months ever, with International Women’s Day coming up, but everything got cancelled. And I really hit rock bottom. At that point I was like, “What am I supposed to do now? Do I get another job? Is this the end? Am I a failure?”

But because of all the work I have been doing on my mindset when I hit rock bottom I knew the only way out was up. So I said “People can cancel my opportunities but they can’t cancel my creativity and my hard work.” In the midst of all that uncertainty I said 2020 was the year I’m going to see the most growth in my business and that’s exactly what happened. I put a note on my vision board that said “Whatever goes down, must come back up, I am unstoppable.” So I decided to put on a free webinar series called Killing It As An Entrepreneur where every Sunday in lockdown I held panel discussions with entrepreneurs to talk about everything from wellness to money to personal brand. I started it because I was an entrepreneur and I was freaking out, so I knew there would be others out there feeling the same and I wanted to support them.

Killing It As An Entrepreneur exploded the brand. I had thousands of women join from all over the world. Someone in the Philippines even stayed up to attend at 3am. I’d never had numbers like that before at an event. Some of these women then started recommending me to their companies which led to corporate bookings. So in 2020 I gained about 10k new followers and worked with the world’s biggest companies and brands like Google, Facebook, Deloitte, Tiktok, Depop, UN Women and others simply because I refused to let my circumstances dictate my future and decided to bet on myself and create my own opportunities.

What do you wish you’d known when you started out?

I’ve learnt it’s so important to reset and ask yourself: am I living at my own pace? Or am I just trying to keep up with the rest of society? The work does not stop and burnout is real. I didn’t think you could burn out doing work you love but you absolutely can. So I wish I had known that it’s ok to go slower and decide for yourself how you want to live your life, what rules you want to live by, what pace you go at and then be unapologetic about it. I also wish I had defined success on my own terms a little earlier. For the longest time I was obsessing over numbers and comparing my growth to similar brands. That made me miserable. But now I know success isn’t about numbers, it’s about liking who you are, liking what you do and liking how you do it, as Maya Angelou once said.

What’s the one physical thing you wish you’d had when you started out?

I wish I had a cuter work space. I’m someone who is really inspired by an aesthetically pleasing environment and so beautiful offices and workspaces really motivate me to dream bigger.

What’s the one thing you wished you’d asked for help with?

I wish I had asked for help with the admin and logistics side of my business. I’m a very organised person so I tend to just do things myself because it’s quicker than teaching and explaining it to someone else but before I knew it I was doing finances, email creation and scheduling, social media content creation, running workshops, coaching clients, hosting events ALL by myself. That came with an immense amount of pressure and burnout. Ever since I hired Ruth, my amazing virtual assistant, it’s taken so much pressure off me and I’m getting better at delegating tasks and going at a more comfortable pace.

Why are we scared to celebrate ourselves?

There’s 3 main things that come to mind, firstly I think society has created negative connotations around celebrating ourselves. We’re often sold a lie that we should be humble and put our heads down and let our work do the talking. So we grow up seeing celebration as arrogant or boastful when it really isn’t.

Another reason why people are scared to celebrate themselves is due to the deeply ingrained self-doubt where they believe they are not good enough or they don’t measure up to the people around them. When you feel like everyone else is better than you, you often feel you aren’t worthy of a celebration because there’s nothing significant about what you’ve done.

And finally many people don’t actually know how to celebrate themselves. We live in a society that celebrates hustle culture and so people don’t actually know how to pause, reflect and appreciate the journey that they’ve been on. They are constantly striving for one goal or the other and forget to take a moment to appreciate themselves.

Why is it important we celebrate ourselves?

It’s actually scientifically proven that when you own your accomplishments, and you celebrate yourself, you actually programme your mind to be more positive. It makes you feel more confident and optimistic about the future. You remember all the times you’ve been killing it more than the times where you’ve made mistakes, or you failed at something and that motivates you to keep going. Also when comparison and imposter syndrome creeps in it’s important to remember all your key achievements so you can challenge that voice that tells you you’re a fraud.

I love celebrating myself and I use my Monthly Wins Tracker which is a free tool on my website to keep track of both my small wins and big wins. If I do something good that I’m proud of, I will celebrate myself because I am always worthy of a celebration. Period. People always tell me that my joy and confidence are infectious and that’s because I am unapologetic about shining my light and celebrating myself. When I show up in that way it inspires another person to also celebrate themselves. So celebration doesn’t always have to be arrogant. When I win another woman also wins because she can look at me and go if Tiwalola can do it, I can do it too. It’s not bragging if it’s based on facts so if you did it…OWN IT!

What’s your next business milestone coming up and how will you be celebrating?

I usually don’t need a milestone to celebrate myself, I’ll celebrate for absolutely any reason. Signed on a new client? I’m off to brunch, hosted a successful event? I’m booking a massage haha. But my next big milestone is launching The Confident and Killing It Academy which will be a private club for members to learn, get coaching and build community. I will most definitely be celebrating that by booking a very relaxing holiday for myself.

Thank you Tiwalowla for taking the time to chat, for all the amazing work you do, and also, for the most brilliant sentence we think we’ve ever read (about being Beyoncé and Oprah’s baby.) Make sure you’re following Tiwalowla here and Confident and Killing It here. And if you’ve been inspired to create a patchwork of your own to celebrate your new business, you can check out our collection of templates here.

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Continuing our series of interviewing inspiring women to celebrate the launch of our new business shower templates (and hopefully inspire you to host a new business shower of your own!) we’re today chatting to the brilliant Sasha Glasgow, founder of Frank+Feel. She writes and shares beautifully on the themes of life, self-doubt, and self-trust, which all seem especially relevant for the journey of setting up your business! We chatted to Sasha about what she’s learnt in her first year of lockdown, and what we can all take away from that…

Who are you + what do you do?

My name is Sasha and I’m a freelance creative writer. I write under the personal brand, Frank+Feel, about life, self-doubt and self-trust. I combine my love of words and concrete belief that women can do through doubt, by treating myself as somewhat of a working example. I make the stuff that usually sits behind the scenes, very much a central part of my business story and offering. I do this through what I call RemindHers – words to remind women of what has always been there. And I bring them to my audience through my writing, journalling workshops, podcast, and freelance role as a content and community coach.

Tell us about the start of your business journey.

My business journey started at the beginning of 2020, when I think I frustrated myself into action, really. I had written in some guise since the age of eight, but never called myself a writer. At the start of 2020, I still didn’t. Initially, I created Frank+Feel because I wanted to start a candle brand and wedge words in there somewhere, but it quickly became apparent that the words wouldn’t and shouldn’t be pushed to the periphery.

What do you wish you’d known when you started out?

That every time you follow your curiosity (even if you don’t know where it will lead, and you constantly question your why), it will lead you a little closer to where you’re meant to be. You don’t have to know. You just have to start.

What’s the one (physical) thing you wish you’d had when you started out?

The right stands, lighting and apparatus to assist with lives. I can’t tell you the number of times that I’ve attached my phone to tin cans for lives, or had some very interesting set ups to ensure my laptop was at the right height and you could see me.

What’s the one thing you wish you’d asked for help with?

All the stuff to do with tax and whether I should register as a sole trader or limited company. I’m clearer on it now, but I’m still figuring it out.

Why is it important that we celebrate ourselves?

Because if not us, then who? It feels like a trait of Britishness to excel at self-deprecation. So much so, that we immediately diminish any compliment received or milestone reached. We think it’s a great show of humility, but sometimes I feel we lean so far that way that it actually does more harm than good. We push down the things that we do as small and surprise, surprise, never feel like we’re doing enough. I think it’s also dangerous to rely on compliments and celebrations (you know, the ones we bat away anyway) to come solely from somewhere outside of yourself, because what if those plaudits don’t come, one day? I refuse to hold celebration at arms length from myself like that any more – only celebrating myself when I’m celebrated by others.

What’s your next business milestone and how will you be celebrating?

I think that’ll be bringing out some physical products with my words on. I’ve done things in collaboration with others, but this will be all me. I’ll likely celebrate with some kind of letterbox sweet treat and happy tears of pride.

You can find more of Sasha’s brilliant words on her website, on instagram @frankandfeel, and on her podcast This Is Your RemindHer. And if you’ve been inspired to set up your own Patchwork to celebrate your new business shower, you can find some templates here, or get started from scratch here.

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Sometimes, you’re not starting a new business from scratch. Sometimes, you’re starting a new business with one already under your wing. This is what the uber-talented Leesha Williams (from Onyx Branding Company) did this January, when she set up a sister brand to her wedding photography business. As part of our series celebrating our new business shower templates (which help you throw – you guessed it – new business showers to celebrate setting up a – you guessed it again – new business), we asked Leesha about the highs and lows of setting up a new business; what she’s done differently this time, and what she’d perhaps do differently again.

Who are you and what do you do?

Hi I’m Leesha, I’m a portrait and product photographer based in the midlands! I own Onyx Branding Co. a female owned branding and product photography business helping small indie businesses elevate their photography content. As a black owned business, I have a special focus on helping other black/brown owned businesses.

Tell us about the start of your business journey.

Onyx really started in lockdown. I usually work as a wedding and event photographer but because of COVID-19 we weren’t able to photograph any weddings. After the events last June and the rise in the Black Lives Matter movement, I began to realise that like me, other Black/Brown owned businesses didn’t feel as if they had a safe space to create and be their true authentic selves, especially in the creative industry. I’ve worked as a wedding photographer for the past few years, but lockdown meant that both my business and income disappeared almost overnight.

What do you wish you’d known when you started out?

So one thing I really wished I’d known before starting out is that running your own photography business or any creative business for that matter is that you really only spend about 30% of your time doing your actual job. The rest is spent wearing all of the other hats! I never planned on working in the photography industry in the way that I do now so I wish I’d done more research in the beginning because for businesses to be successful, you do have to run them like a business so that includes all of the admin, marketing and everything else that goes along with it!

What’s the one (physical) thing you wish you’d had when you were starting out?

One physical thing I wish I had when starting out would definitely have been a good working laptop for editing! When I started out photographing weddings and events, I never dreamed that it would’ve been my full time career. This meant I didn’t necessarily invest in anything early on, so now having a computer solely for editing has increased my productivity so much!

What I would say to anyone wanting to start a photography business is to get to know your equipment and what you have first though and get good at using that. Having the right equipment does help but you don’t need fancy equipment to make you better at your job, your equipment should grow with your business.

What’s the one thing you wished you’d asked for help with?

If there was one thing I really wish I’d asked for help when starting my business it probably would have been help from someone with admin, time management and prioritising tasks. Running the two businesses simultaneously can get quite overwhelming so I find that I can often get burnt out easily!

Being a creative person also means that I can get distracted very easily so I find that having someone like a virtual assistant or even just coworking with a friend or a really good organiser system like Trello super helpful for my business and for staying on track with tasks.

Who are the people that helped you most in the early days?

My friends and family were so helpful in the beginning, I’ve been lucky in that everyone has always been really supportive, sometime working in a creative industry or opening a small business, you don’t always get the support you need or people think that it’s “just a side hustle” or it’s not a “real job” so if you’re ever feeling that way, my advice would be to try and find online groups or communities for other like minded businesses or networking events. Being around other people who are in your industry is such an amazing thing because they understand what you’re going through.

What’s your next business milestone coming up and how will you be celebrating?

I’m very goal orientated so every year I like to write down a set of goals for each business and how I can achieve them, I like to set myself some goals that I definitely must do and then also a set that would be amazing to achieve with a little action plan on how I can go about doing it. If you’re like me and you like to work towards specific goals, I find that way works really well and you can print them off and put them in your office/workspace.

Onyx was only launched in January and it’s been crazy since then so my next milestone for Onyx is to gain five repeat clients before the end of the summer. It doesn’t sound like a lot but because I have such a niche ideal client that I want to work with, I think it’s achievable and will still allow me to focus on my other business goals as well.

Thank you so much Leesha! To check out Leesha’s branding work head to Onyx Branding Co.; to see her wedding photography you can head here. And if you’ve been inspired to throw a new business shower, firstly: congratulations! and secondly: you can find loads of templates and inspiration here.

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Without romanticising the past year whatsoever, the pandemic has forced a lot of us to slow down, and explore different hobbies and creative endeavours that we might not have had time or inclination to ever explore before. And then, true to form, we might have found a hobby we really liked, and made it into a business! That’s what the wonderful Aiza did with By Coya: she started out making polymer clay earrings as a creative outlet in summer 2020, but the popularity of her super cute designs quickly meant she set up shop. To celebrate the launch of our new business shower templates, we reached out to Aiza to chat about setting up a product based business, and what kind of things it requires.

Who are you and what do you do?

I’m Aiza, a creative based in East London and I run By Coya, a handmade jewellery business from a corner of my living room. I make earrings you can almost eat! Specifically, I make food inspired statement earrings by hand using polymer clay.

Tell us about the start of your business journey.

I started making earrings during the summer of 2020. I needed a creative outlet and had come across a polymer clay earring tutorial. Once I touched the medium, I was hooked. I couldn’t stop making earrings! I gave away things I made, and after a while, my friends had too many. Since I have experience running creative businesses, and am surrounded by amazing maker friends, I decided to start By Coya.

What do you wish you’d known when you started out?

When I started out, I really wished I knew how to manage my time better. I would start making, and the next time I looked up, it was 3am! I’m a bit better now, and being able to manage my time means I can accurately cost and price things accurately, while paying myself a decent working wage.

What’s the one (physical) thing you wish you’d had when you started out?

I wish, and still wish for a nice jewellery/working bench. I have a small, slightly wobbly round table in the corner of my living room and it’s not ideal.

What’s the one thing you wish you’d asked for help with?

The help that I would’ve asked for when starting out was to understand how to take photos of earrings in my ear. I’m still not great at it but I’ll keep practising!

Who are the people that helped you most in the early days?

Definitely my friends who also run small businesses. They’ve been my biggest fans, and encouraged me every step of the way.

Who did you tell about your business when it started?

Mostly my friends in the small creative business world. My family but they don’t really get it, so I talk to my friends about it mostly.

What’s your next business milestone coming up and how will you be celebrating?

My first business birthday is coming up! I’m not 100% sure how I’m going to celebrate yet, but I will definitely have fun earrings and probably CAKE.

If you fancy bagging a pair of good-enough-to-eat earrings from Aiza, you can get them at By Coya – make sure you follow her on instagram @by.coya too. And if you’re looking for a way to celebrate your new business, product-based or otherwise, you acn see our new business shower templates here (but follow Aiza’s lead: cake is a must!)

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Sometimes, the internet helps you find wonderful people that you otherwise might never have come across – and that’s what’s happened with Keri Jarvis, The Audacity Coach. Keri’s reclaiming ‘Who Does She Think She Is?!’ – err, yes please – and so we knew she’d be the PERFECT person to chat to about our new business shower templates. They’re all about setting up your own business, celebrating your decision to do so, and having the confidence to ask for what you need help with: things Keri is all about too.

Who are you and what do you do?

I’m Keri Jarvis and I’m The Audacity Coach, leading a reclamation of ‘Who Does She Think She Is?!’. I work mostly with women with young businesses, seeking to do some good in the world whilst carving out vibrant lives for themselves.

Audacity has 4 key facets for me…
– Acknowledge and ask for what you want
– Availability for abundance
– Appearance ambivalence
– Alliance with others

…and I believe that when more women embody these ideas, which go against everything they’ve been taught, the world will get better.

My style is a blend of coaching, mentoring and consulting, and I am informal AF. I’m a feminist, socialist, mother of 2, and a Northerner, living by the sea in Essex.

Tell us about the start of your business journey.

Well. Before all this, I was in store management with a major high street retailer- sprouts and knickers were my life. When my eldest son was born 8 years ago, we used hypnobirthing techniques, and this was the beginning of both my business, and my feminist adventures.

I decided not to go back to employment, and trained to teach hypnobirthing myself. The first incarnation of my business was called HypnoBirthdays (cringe), and involved me teaching people in their living rooms, then small groups in mine, and eventually hiring spaces.

By 2018, I’d opened a studio space, under the revised brand, Do It Like A Mother (much better, right?), and had begun mentoring other women through some of the mindset and marketing elements of their small businesses.

I sold Do It Like A Mother at the start of 2020, and after such a tricky year, it’s a fricking pleasure and a half to see it being reinvigorated by its new owner, at the start of a whole new journey for the business.

What do you wish you’d known when you started out?

That the failures/ mistakes/ screw ups that feel monumental and all consuming at the time will usually form the funniest, and most affirming parts of your story in the end. The money, time and energy I’ve poured into projects and connections that have been fruitless are beyond measure (because I’ve blocked it out, haaaa). But, cliché though it is, I wouldn’t have the life and biz I have now without those experiences.

What’s the one physical thing you wish you’d had when you started out?

A decent printer (and a lifetime supply of ink and paper and clips)! Oh my gosh, I can’t tell you how many hours were spent stressing over paper jams, ink issues and the rest whilst I was teaching people in person. And I still love to print things off if there’s a lot to read – anything to get the screentime down a shade.

What’s the one thing you wished you’d asked for help with?

Whilst I don’t really do regrets, I wish I’d asked for more help to get my head around email marketing sooner. I have shed many tears over a major email marketing provider over the years, and resisted committing to emailing my community because every moment I spent on there reinforced my sense that I was incompetent! These days I have a different system, plenty of help from my business manager, Dawn, and I look forward to connecting with my audience in their inboxes.

Why are we scared to celebrate ourselves?

Heaven help a woman who deems herself worthy of praise or recognition! Woe betide her. Seriously – our entire lives we’ve been shown that being self deprecating is the way of a good woman. If we should become FULL OF OURSELVES… well, it’s a sin. But babes, what else would we be full of?! Know this- when you acknowledge your brilliance, you give other women permission to do the same. Normalise women loving themselves. “She
proper loves herself, and I like it.”

What’s your next business milestone coming up and how will you be celebrating?

Ooooo this is such a good question! I’m gonna say the survival of my business through the Panny D. Because of my company structure, I’ve not been entitled to any financial grants or furlough, etc. I had 2 residential retreats to cancel, countless episodes of anticipated work falling through because of other people’s businesses being impacted, not to mention 2 children at home for an eternity. But I am still here, gaining momentum again. I can’t help but feel this is a BIG FRICKING DEAL.

I am celebrating by integrating what I’ve learnt – that I don’t have to be BUSY with my business for it to be successful. I’m allowing myself much more space for rest, hobbies and community care.

Also, new journals. Loads of ‘em… And redecorating my hall, stairs and landing with pink paintwork- babes, I work ALL OVER THE HOUSE, so it’s basically an office upgrade. I’ve also put a disco ball up in my main workspace. And I’m gradually gifting myself an indoor jungle. Oh, and some more feminist books. And I got new photography done. Ok I am very good at this…

THANK you Keri – for your wisdom, of course, but also for the idea of putting a disco ball in our offices…If you’re similarly inspired to set up a business on your own terms, you can find a new business shower template inspired by Keri here. You can find out more about Keri here, and find her on instagram @keri_l_jarvis

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All new businesses start with a good idea – but what comes after that? To launch our brand new business shower templates (the perfect way to start and celebrate a new business, we think, though we are a bit biased) we’re doing a series of interviews with brilliant entrepeneurial women, finding out more about how their journeys began. You’ll have no doubt seen a Birkim Bag on your social media feed or, if you’ve been lucky enough, in a friend’s house in a fleeting visit in-between lockdown periods perhaps – and today we’re talking to the brilliant brain behind the cult ceramics, Kim Williamson, about how it began!

Who are you and what do you do?

I’m Kimberley Williamson, I’m a ceramicist and the founder of Birkim Bags. I design and make ceramics styled around plastic bags and tote bags. I occasionally throw in other bags to mix it up.

Tell us about the start of your business journey!

My business started as air dry products. I came up with my name and doodled my logo pretty early on. I would work out of a tiny space in our bedroom as it was the only place I had. It was a friend (shoutout to Nicola Fernandes) that saw my bags at home and asked where I got them. She very quickly told me to start a business with it. I’d flirted with several side hustles, waiting for a solid idea, so this felt like it was falling into place. I released in small batches so that it would work around my own schedule and other jobs that I had at the time.

What do you wish you’d known when you started out?

I wish I’d known more about the financial side of things. Stuff like getting a business account, what support is out there. Setting up the tax side of the business and keeping records of everything. I managed to get a BBL just before the deadlines thanks to the advice of a friend, I wouldn’t have had a clue otherwise.

What’s the one (physical) thing you wish you’d had when you started out?

A good worktop. My desk is great but the main thing I use as the studio I’m currently part of, is a huge wooden worktop. It’s great to have the space but also something that’s made well and supports the work I do. I still use the same basic materials that I used with air dry clay, that I do with my earthstone clay. A sewing needle, a cuticle pusher and a rubber tipped paint brush thing.

What’s the one thing you wished you’d asked for help with?

I could’ve asked for help earlier with production. It’s always hard to let someone into your world, especially when you’ve been doing it alone for a few years. It’s a huge trust factor and it can be really hard to find good help. Fortunately, I’ve a wonderful woman named TJ from our studio that is currently my personal hero. She just gets me, which makes it a million times easier. It blows my mind with how much easier it’s been and it’s only been a few shifts so far!

What’s helped you run a successful business? What’s hindered you?

I’ve been hugely supported with my business, especially from other businesses and it’s a big part of its success. The creative community is a wonderful world to be a part of as everyone tends to lift each other up and also offer advice. I try to pay it forward and help when other small businesses approach me.

I’m mainly hindered by myself. Whether it’s the inability to schedule myself properly, putting myself out there and getting slapped in the face by imposter syndrome. It’s a constant effort but totally rewarding, I just need to get out of my own way. I also need to get better at asking for help with the technical side of things, such as my website and merging my email systems.

What’s your next business milestone coming up and how will you be celebrating?

I’ve had a couple of things recently that have been great and I need to set aside time to celebrate and appreciate that they happened. One was being selected and exhibited at the Royal Scottish Academy. I’ve also had some great collaborations happen which I need to take a moment with.

My next milestone that’s upcoming will be my first big business investment, my own kiln. It’s a big deal and I’m getting two for my new home studio that I’m setting up when we move in the next 6 weeks.

If you’d like to grab your own BirKim, then head to Kim’s website here. Make sure you’re following her on instagram @birkimbags too, where she updates her launch dates. And if you fancy making a new business shower patchwork, you can either start with our new ceramics business template especially inspired by Kim, one of our other templates – or create your own from scratch here!

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To celebrate the launch of our brand new new business shower templates on Patchwork, we’ve asked some of our favourite women in business about what starting self-employment was like for them. First up in our series is the wonderful writer and podcaster Fiona Thomas! As the author of Out of Office: Ditch the 9-5 and Be Your Own Boss, which is a guide to side hustling and freelancing, she was the perfect person for us to ask: what was your new business journey like? And if you could do it over again, what would you want at the start of your new business journey now?

Who are you and what do you do?

My name is Fiona Thomas and I’m a freelance writer. I’ve written two books, the most recent is called Out of Office: Ditch the 9-5 and Be Your Own Boss and it’s a guide to side hustling and getting into freelancing. I also host virtual workshops and courses to inspire people to follow their writerly dreams!

Tell us about the start of your business journey.

I fell into a career in catering management when I left university and over time, it just became too much to handle. I had a mental breakdown in my mid-twenties and knew that to manage the ongoing symptoms of depression and anxiety that I would need a job that supported my mental health. I didn’t really consider setting up as self-employed, but after starting a blog to talk about my mental health struggles it reignited a passion for writing, and I found that people were actively seeking me out to write for them on a freelance basis. It all took off from there really, and I gradually moved down to part-time in my waitressing job to make time for the paid work that was coming in. In 2018 I got my first book deal and made the leap into full-time freelancing and haven’t looked back since!

What do you wish you’d known when you started out?

I wish I’d known about the importance of scheduling in time to work on moving the business forward. I thought that freelancing was all about having every day filled with client work and that being ‘fully booked’ was a sign of success. But I did that for so long and realised I was stagnating, growth was impossible because I was only ever thinking a few days ahead, never thinking strategically about building my audience and attracting future clients. Now I have a better sense of how I want my business to look in a year or so and how I want to spend my time, and I have lots of ‘hands off’ days where I focus on planning and marketing and it’s been a real game-changer for me. It can feel scary to step away from paid work in the beginning but the longterm results have been great for me.

What’s the one physical thing you wish you’d had when you started out?

A podcasting mic and stand would have been great. It took me a while to figure out which one was right and I’ve gone through a few now to get the best one, but now that I have it my podcast content is really good quality and needs minimal editing which is such a time-saver! I have to say, a coffee machine would have been great too. Purely because I spent a lot of time swanning around coffee shops in the early days when I should have been working…

(If you also dream of a swanky coffee machine, we’ve got a template for one here…)

What’s the one thing you wish you’d asked for help with?

I think having a clearer strategy, in the beginning, would have helped, so having a business coach in the early days would have been amazing! It’s so hard to find the money to invest in your business when you’re struggling to get clients in the beginning, so having that guidance would have been incredibly valuable to me. More specifically, I think having some help with building my offerings and setting my rates would have had a huge impact on my income.

What’s helped you run a successful business? What’s held you back?

Social media has been a core part of my business success. Having the ability to connect with potential clients directly on Instagram is such a godsend, even if it can feel a bit overwhelming at times! Being able to work from the comfort of my own home and do all my work online is the thing that helps me manage my depression and anxiety symptoms, so having that flexibility means that I show up to work feeling my best which has been the key to business success for me. The thing that has held me back the most is probably my own insecurities! I go through terrible bouts of anxiety where I just compare myself to everyone else instead of focusing on my own stuff. Thankfully I’m getting better at it now, and having a close group of freelance pals has really helped with that.

Who are the people that helped you most in the early days?

People on the internet were my absolute saviours in the beginning. I got my first newspaper byeline thanks to a fellow blogger who tagged me on Twitter. Metro Online was a huge supporter of my mental health writing too, and my publisher Trigger believed in me from the get-go which was a massive seal of approval. Having people engage with my writing and want to publish it has been a big motivator for me because ultimately I want to share my writing with as many people as possible!

What’s your next business milestone and how will you be celebrating?

Such a good question!! I think learning to celebrate your business wins is so important and something that a lot of us avoid completely. I’m working on my next book at the moment, so I’m looking forward to celebrating if/when that gets picked up by a publisher and I can start the writing process. I’ve just moved house and finally have my own office, so I’m going to buy a new piece of art to congratulate myself!

Thank you so much Fiona for your wisdom! If you’ve been inspired to make a new business shower patchwork, you can see our template for freelance writers inspired by Fiona here – you can also find Fiona’s website here, and if you want to grab a copy of Out Of Office, you can get it from Bookshop.org here!

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Ellie Kime - The Enthusiast - looking out of window in coffee shop

You’ve probably seen the viral tweets and subsequent memes that do the rounds every so often, asking why don’t we throw a new business shower for people setting up on their own (“Instead of Baby Showers, let’s host Business Showers. When a friend starts a business, we all come together, congratulate them and bring resources for their business” suggested Ke Sharp. And the internet duly went WILD.)

Well, the reason that new business showers resonated is because it really is a bloomin’ brilliant idea. And rather than consign them to the graveyard of Internet Ideas That Could Have Been, Patchwork have come up with a brilliant way to actually make them happen – so here’s 5 reasons you should have a new business shower:

Frankly, you deserve a new business shower

It’s easy to downplay it when you start a new business, and we don’t want to freak you out, but: going it alone is a big deal. It’s scary and exciting and nerve-wracking and incredible (and totally worth it!), and it’s a decision that justifies definite celebration. Add some ceremony to the occasion by throwing a new business shower, and giving it and you the moment you so richly deserve.

It’s a great way to tell people about your idea

We’re not saying use your business shower as a marketing campaign, but we are saying a new business shower is a great way to publicly let people know you’re actually doing this thing! It’s a big ol’ vibrant flare signalling to people that it’s happening: you’re going into business with your brilliant idea that you’ve kept to yourself for so long.

Because it’s a bit like having a baby

I’m going to caveat this by saying that obviously having a business is not the same as having a baby – I’ve had a few sleepless nights as a business owner, but as a child who didn’t sleep a full night til I was eight and a half years old (sorry Mum!), I know they’re not exactly comparable. But they are a bit comparable – both things you’ve created, that you feel incredibly proud of, that you’ve never done before, that you can read all the books in the world to prepare yourself for but ultimately still have to learn as you go. To really stretch this metaphor to its limit, a baby shower is a brilliant way to mark a momentous milestone and to welcome in a new chapter, and so a new business shower can too.

Your loved ones will be itching for ways to support you

A new business shower is a brilliant vehicle for your family and friends to support you and your new venture, in a way that isn’t by becoming your customers or clients. I mean, if they want to buy from you, who are we to stop them – but a lot of the time they won’t be a fit for your ideal customer base. And that’s ok! What they will be, though, is desperate to show their enthusiasm, and throw themselves behind you in a demonstrable way. A new business shower is a great way to get them involved, and to give them ways of being able to show their love and support for you that don’t see them buying stuff they don’t need.

Community is really important, even as a business of one

We’re pretty sure the Beatles were specifically singing about a New Business Shower when they penned (I Get By) With A Little Help From My Friends. Having a strong support network, be it 2 people or 20, is crucial – people you can lean on, rant to, and share your wins with, and who can do the same for you. Setting off on your business adventure knowing that you carry a bit of each of these important people with you in everything you do can be really encouraging.

And, because I love you and want you to succeed: here’s an extra reason why you should throw a new business shower with Patchwork:

It’s environmentally friendly

You may not have a fully formed idea of all of your business values yet, and that’s ok, but I think we can all agree that having a business that does good and minimises harm is something we should all be striving for. With Patchwork, your friends and family have the option to ‘do’ and ‘make’ some of the patches you provide as well as ‘fund’. This means that rather than buying you well-intentioned but ultimately useless stuff, they can make, find, and rehome items that deserve a second life, as well as contributing time or expertise that leaves its mark in your heart, but not on the earth. Clever, huh?

Are you thinking of hosting a new business shower? GOOD FOR YOU! You can look at some premade templates here, or read more about how to create them here. You can also read the story of the original New Business Shower, (yes the one that launched actual Patchwork itself!)

Best of luck with your new venture – you’re going to smash it!

Author: Ellie Kime – The Enthusiast

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Patchwork was designed to make celebrating big life occasions fun, engaging, practical AND meaningful for all those involved. With the world of work constantly changing especially post Covid, more and more people are deciding to start their own small businesses or pivot existing ones. So we decided it was the perfect time to combine the two with our New Business Shower! Patchwork can help you launch and celebrate your new business idea with a little help from your family and friends.

What is a New Business Shower?

A New Business Shower is the perfect, FUN way to launch your new business idea. You share your plan with family and friends so that they can celebrate and support you as you start out on your journey. Life is full of milestones that we are used to sharing with family and friends. Whether it’s a big birthday, engagement or wedding, a new home or a new baby.

These are the times when people want to send their good wishes. Maybe wish to buy a gift, help out in a practical way or just share a celebratory drink or two. So we think it makes sense for the launch of a New Business to be included as a significant event too. Like having a baby or moving house, it’s a huge life event. It often bringing with it a change of lifestyle, a high level of excitement, stress and sometimes risk too.

It’s a time when we really value the network and community around us. Whether it’s for their words of wisdom, a specific skill, a donation of some second hand office equipment or a cash gift towards some new gear.

How can Patchwork help?

With a Patchwork New Business Shower you can let your family and friends know how best they can help you. Their well meaning actions can be channelled where they are most needed and appreciated! By creating a Pinterest board style “wish list” you can let everyone know what type of support or contributions are most welcomed. This ensures that resources and talents are put to good use.

With Patchwork you can collect cash contributions to spend on the things you’ll need to invest in for your new business. You can also ask for donations of items that people might have lying around. For example: spare kitchen or office supplies. Perhaps you know people who have expertise? They could share advice with you over a coffee – this can go on your Patchwork too!

Or perhaps you’ve got friends who have neither money or industry expertise. But they might be happy to watch the kids for a few hours. Or maybe even take the dogs for a walk to give you some much needed down-time.

Patchwork makes supporting you simple, convenient and inclusive. It can involve friends and family who are physically nearby and those who live overseas or who you can’t easily see face to face.

Who can throw a New Business Shower?

Absolutely anyone can. Firstly, Patchwork is completely free to set up and use for you and your supporters. We only make our money by charging a small 3% commission on cash gifts given via the site. If you are using your New Business Shower page to ask friends for non-financial favours or donations then Patchwork is completely free.

At Patchwork we recognise that people celebrate different occasions at different times and in different ways. Patchwork is for everybody no matter what, when, how and why they want to celebrate. A New Business Shower is a way of sharing your decision with your network. It’s marks the occasion with a celebration, and welcomes your business in to your life! Much like a baby shower in fact.

What’s the difference between a New Business Shower and a crowdfund?

They are very, very different. A Patchwork New Business Shower isn’t for raising money from strangers or an equity deal. If you are looking for serious investment or funding for your business we would always recommend something like Seedrs or CrowdCube.

Our concept is about sharing your plans and acknowledging the challenges. It allows friends and family to celebrate and support you on your journey. People contributing to your New Business Shower are not looking for a return on their investment. Well, unless that return is you looking very happy with a huge smile on your face! They are contributing because they want to show their support. And in a way that is meaningful, memorable and fun, and best fits with your wishes and their resources.

Is it awkward asking people to help?

For the reasons already mentioned above – no, not at all! If you send out an email with a request for cash then yes. But a New Business Shower is way of making the act of supporting you so much more than that. It’s bringing all the people that care about you together. Not just to help you with cash gifts (they’re great!) but also to recognise and celebrate the steps you are taking, and to share in the experience – the ups as well as the downs – with you.

The invite to your New Business Shower (whether it’s a real world physical party or a virtual event) is just that; an invitation, not an obligation. You’ll know instinctively the people who you’ll want to include. And they will be grateful to be given your guidance on how best they can help.

Finding a way of gifting that suits both the giver and the recipient is the Holy Grail – and this is it! When you include options in your Patchwork to suit everyone, people can gift you in the way that suits their own circumstances, time resources and budget.

Cleverly, a New Business Shower also acts as a sort of protective bubble for you. In letting people know explicitly what you do need and what you would appreciate, you are also letting them know what you don’t need and won’t appreciate. So you can bid farewell to the unsolicited business advice and multiple stationery sets!

How does it work?

It’s easy! You can use one of our readymade New Business Shower templates or simply start your own page from scratch. Have a think about the kind of help you’d like, the things you need to fund or the skills you’d appreciate from your network.

For example if you’re starting a work from home business and need to set up a corner of your home for an office space you could include options for people to contribute £50 towards a new laptop, £5 to keep the biscuit tin topped up, or some of their time to help you put up some shelves.

When you’ve added all the patches you want to, just complete your personal and payment details. Then you can share your URL direct to friends and family. When they arrive at your page, people can see at a glance all the things that you’d appreciate help with. They can choose which things they’d like to fund, make or do to help make your new business a success.

If they choose to contribute a cash gift, money will be sent direct to you via PayPal or Stripe. If they are choosing to help you out with a pledge of their time or a donation of an item, they will simply be making a pledge via the page and you can follow up with them to arrange a time to suit!


Want to see how a New Business Shower worked in real life? Read the story of how Patchwork launched with a little help from our friends. If you’d like any tips or advice on setting up your Business Shower Patchwork please drop us a line at [email protected].

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Nice biscuit at Patchwork launch party

When we started Patchwork we didn’t do it alone. We did it with help from colleagues, friends and family. Which is what Patchwork is all about so it felt totally natural and right. And it now feels right to be helping others do the same with a Patchwork New Business Shower.

Back then, when I needed to raise funds, I did it through an off-line, real world crowdfund. This money came from people who were professional peers. They were people who loved and supported the idea of Patchwork, had a bit of money in the bank getting no interest and were happy to invest in exchange for equity in the business. Using the EIS scheme to invest was reassuring as their money was in part protected by the government and their investment could be offset in their tax bill.

Patchwork didn’t exist at that point (obviously) so the evening I presented my idea to a room of 35 potential investors. I had a site mock up, a pitch deck and a breakdown of how the money we needed to be raised would be used. I literally created a ‘patchwork’ of images to represent everything including a front end and back end developer (complete with cheeky bum pic).

At the time the visualisation was just for fun. Patchwork is not a crowdfunding platform like Seedrs or CrowdCube. Those platforms are designed for people to invest funds in exchange for equity. Patchwork was and is designed to enable people to collectively contribute towards gifts and experiences to celebrate special occasions. However, I did use the Patchwork principle to bring to life my new business dream visually for everyone to see. This helped me to raise funds and in doing so helped me prove the power of the Patchwork concept in practice.

Putting our principles in to practice

Fast forward a few months (ok a lot of months) and we were nearly ready to launch. We had found a studio space in Brockley. It was a shop that had been empty for 8 months, was super cheap rent (at the time) and getting the keys coincided with my birthday. So of course we decided to have a party.

Whilst most of my friends and family were not in a position to be official investors in Patchwork they were all super supportive, excited for our imminent launch and really wanted to do whatever they could to help. So when people started asking what I wanted for my birthday, instead of suggesting a few books and my favourite body lotion, I put together a plan that again allowed us to put our Patchwork principles into practice.

The site wasn’t quite ready in advance. And at the time it was designed only to allow people to contribute cash gifts. But in a weird premonition of how Patchwork would evolve I suggested people do one of three things.

  • Buy booze for my birthday/business party
  • Bring something useful for our new office – some stolen stationery, unwanted crockery, a second hand printer or spare chair.
  • Offer their time and or skills to help paint or put up shelves in the studio or bring a dish or promise to DJ at the launch party.

A very Patchwork party

Everyone came to my birthday / new business party. But they didn’t just attend. They were active participants in the launch of our company! Our whole office was kitted out with second hand stuff gifted by friends, family and our new Brockley neighbours.

We had Will from the Mystery Jets sing with our sister Sophie, powered by bikes borrowed from our friend Colin at Electric Pedals. And also Ben from Power The Fight DJ, Alice and Julie to help make our signage and huge shapes for the window. Then Janie from Baked Salt making amazing food and Naomi came to take photos of the evening.

In 2015 we launched Patchwork with the ability not just to gift cash but to contribute time and skills, and today the site is being used not just to organise and fund DIY weddings, birthday parties and baby showers, but since lockdown we’ve seen a new idea emerging… new business SHOWERS!

Of course to us it’s an old idea. It’s THE idea that got us started.

Celebrate and support with Patchwork

It’s a story we’ve told but until now it’s not an idea we’ve promoted. But the current global pandemic has changed things. Whether it’s redundancies causing people to find alternative careers or furlough giving people the time and space to dream about starting something new. We’re seeing more people starting new businesses from their kitchen tables and of course we’re here to help!

Patchwork is not and will never be about equity fundraising from strangers. We recommend Seedrs for people looking to raise serious funds with all the legals tied up. We’re here to do what we do best – to help friends, families, communities and networks to come together to celebrate and support each other by gifting their cash, time and skills.

Want your own new business shower?

If you’ve got an idea for a business but need some help taking those first steps. Patchwork is the perfect way to share your idea with your community and show them the ways they can help. Because with Patchwork you can share ideas for things people can fund, make and do. It means everyone can contribute in some small way – and together make something amazing happen!

You might ask people to contribute money towards a training course, you might need specific advice from an expert, a helping hand with some DIY or some secondhand stuff! Whatever you need, you can create a totally personalised patchwork from scratch. Then share it with your community to start receiving funds, offers of help and practical support. If you’re looking for inspiration we’ve even got some readymade templates for you to customise. Just head to our New Business Shower collection page.

So that’s it. If you’re not planning a wedding or baby shower but are thinking about starting a brand new baby business, we’re here to help make it happen – with a little help from your friends. If you need any reassurance that it can work, look no further than our story. We are the proof! It’s how we got where we are and how we’re now able to help you too.

Big love and power to you. Liv and Team Patchwork.

Questions? Drop us a line at [email protected]

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