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The wedding industry is, more often than not, targeted at women as the ones with the purchasing power. However, a lot of it is done in really archaic stereotypical ways. The assumptions that you’ll be dieting for your wedding dress, or that you’re wearing a dress in the first place! The assumption that you’ll be taking your partner’s name, or that you can only propose to your partner on one specific day every 4 years…the list goes on. If all you see is the mainstream wedding coverage, it can seem a pretty alienating place. BUT DON’T WORRY! That isn’t the whole of the industry. Of course with five feminist women running Patchwork alternative wedding registry we can promise you that you’ll only find positive posts that celebrate and empower women on our blog and across our social media. But today we thought we’d share a few of our favourite independent media and events brands that will make you feel good and fill your wedding planning journey with love and power every step of the way.

Catalyst Wedding Co.

Catalyst Wedding Co. offer wedding inspiration and advice, all – most importantly – with an intersectional feminist lens. Their entire MO is to increase the representation of diverse couples in the media, and to ‘engage in critical dialogue about love, marriage, and weddings.’ Those critical conversations don’t mean anything unless they bring in race, religion, gender, sexuality, class, body size, and more into the frame, and the team do so in such an incredible way. We love every single one of their posts!

Dancing With Her

Dancing With Her is a magazine, directory and blog celebrating LGBTQ+ women in love. Though they ship worldwide, they’re an Australian-founded outlet – and you know what they say about those Aussies and their impeccable style! They’ve created a community of ‘women who love women to celebrate their love the way they’ve dreamt of doing’ – and that is what it’s all about, is it not?

Nu Bride

Nu Bride is the brainchild of diversity campaigner Nova Reid. As a black woman, she found it really hard to find representation in the mainstream media when she got engaged – and so she created her own. Nu Bride is multi-award-winning – and rightly so! – and is one of our favourite resources for truly representative inspiration and advice. Last year Nova launched Nu Bride: The Show, the ground-breaking first inclusive wedding show, and this year she’s gone on stage as a TedX speaker. We’re in awe.

Rock n Roll Bride

Kat’s been championing alternative weddings since 2007, when she founded her blog based on her own experience as a bride planning a wedding that was anything but cookie cutter. Whilst still sharing extraordinary and unique wedding inspiration – and now with a bimonthly magazine under her belt too – she also uses her platform to call out the bull**** diatribe that a lot of the big platforms blurt out.

The Un-Wedding

The clue is in the name! Whereas nowadays weddings are a firm focus on love and a celebration of equality, their roots are in the patriarchy. This still filters through sometimes in terms of traditions, which is why Mel’s motto is to make new ones. We love this approach – picking only the ones that mean something to you, and creating new ones that resonate too. (They have a wedding show coming up too, which we’ll be at – grab your tickets here!)

A Most Curious Wedding Fair

A Most Curious Wedding Fair are all about supporting the indie businesses: the artisans, the makers, the movers and the shakers. They’ve the go-to wedding fair for couples looking for something different; a curation of suppliers who are pushing boundaries to create alternative weddings that really feel like you, and who want to work with you to create magic. We regularly refer to them for exceptional inspiration, know-how and know-who. Plus, they promise never to put diet shakes in their goody bag!

The Wedding Collective

We’re proud members of The Wedding Collective, a directory connecting couples with modern, creative suppliers who revel in creating authentic wedding days. We love that they don’t buy in to the usual tropes, instead focussing on what really matters: excellent design and an excellent spouse. What else do you even need, really?

Restless Magazine

Restless Magazine are relatively new, but the waves they’ve made in that short time are sizable and seismic. Curating articles focused at ‘women who give a damn’ (errr, that’s us!) they cover loads of really interesting topics. In particular, we’ve loved a load of great pieces from Alice Snape on her thoughts on marriage as a modern woman. We’re looking forward to more with this modern lens!

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As feminist founders one of the reasons we started Patchwork was because we were shocked that wedding gift lists are so outdated. As women the idea of celebrating our weddings with new pots and pans is just offensive. After all it’s 2020 not 1950. Patchwork is all about inspiring and empowering couples to think beyond the kitchen sink. To dream big by providing a way for friends and family to collectively contribute towards the one thing they really want as a wedding gift. Whether that’s an adventure honeymoon, a patch of woodland, joint tattoos, a new life in a yurt in Spain. The good news is there are loads of amazing women-founded businesses. They’re using creativity to challenge and change the wedding industry for the better. So today we’re celebrating 10 women who are not only fabulous wedding suppliers but also feminist heroes. Read on….

Sam Ham Design

@samhamdesign

Sam Ham Design’s wedding ring collection – as well as her other pieces of delicious jewellery – are feminist masterpieces. She describes her designs as “Demanding recognition forged on strength of character rather than on expectations of gender”. This gets a room full of applause from us, frankly! Her wedding and engagement collection comprises seven individual rings. Any of which can fit together seamlessly to represent the two equal halves of a wedding coming together.

Katie The Celebrant

@katiethecelebrant @lexflemingphoto

Though we adore weddings, we don’t like the patriarchy and all the outdated traditions it brings with it. That’s why we love Katie The Celebrant’s approach to celebrancy, where there’s no template. It’s just a couple in love and a story to be told. This frees you up for a granny flowergirl, a dog ring bearer and mid-ceremony karaoke – if you so wish. And this also means that there’s no vows of servitude and no precedent of being given away. As Katie is a Humanist Celebrant, a portion of her fees go back to Humanists UK. A charity who were instrumental in a lot of incredible campaigning such as equal marriage and abortion laws. Finally, if that hasn’t convinced you that she’s a feminist wedding supplier of dreams, she also does speech writing workshops for brides, because she wants to encourage more women to use their voice. An icon.

Parrot and Pineapple

@parrotnpineapple

Rowan is, in her own words, ‘a certified snowflake feminist’, which is just how we like our wedding suppliers. As well as specialising in colourful, fun-loving, informal wedding photography, she also provides loads of support for feminist couples who are looking for ways to navigate the wedding planning process in an empowering way. She promises never to feed into the Princess complex. This means she’ll never automatically assume that you want to be treated as Princess on your wedding day. However, if you do want to be, then that’s a-ok too! And we’re not ones to dismiss Bridezillas, weddings can be stressful and your emotions are valid.

The Feconomy

@thefeconomy

Pip and Tara set up The Feconomy to support and champion female-founded food businesses. In a time where we’re all being encouraged to be more thoughtful with our purchases and where they’re coming from, supporting female-founded businesses is a really important move to make. Their food spreads are vistas of retro deliciousness, with 1970s-inspired styling and recipes, created by them and exclusively made from ingredients from companies founded by womxn. Imagine how much greater cocktail hour is when you knew that each and every canape is supporting a woman in business?

Joyce Connor

@joyceconnormakeup @robgardnerphotography1

We met the lovely Joyce via Nu Bride: The Wedding Show last year and love her approach to bridal make-up – enhancing natural beauty, rather than trying to cover it up or change anything. It’s a firm Patchwork belief that you should feel like yourself on your wedding day – a more jazzy, dressed-up version maybe, but still authentically you. She also runs workshops for the cancer charity Look Good Feel Better, because she’s a total legend.

Alice Gabb

@alicegabb

Sure, you could fall in love with Alice for countless reasons – her exceptional vintage wardrobe, impeccable hair, and excellent taste in London coffee shops are a few – but the main things we love her for are her incredible handlettering and banner making. When we say her banners make excellent statement pieces for your wedding decor, we mean statements quite literally: as each banner is custom-made, they can display whatever message you like. Messages around values, morality and belonging are particularly loved, as the inspiration for the banners came from involvement in a Women’s March in America a few years ago. They also tick eco-credentials boxes too, as they’re made from vintage fabrics, and can be reused as home decor when the day is over. Yes please!

Strength and Stem

@strengthandstem

What’s better than gorgeous flowers? May seem like a rhetorical question, but in actual fact there is something better: gorgeous flowers that also empower disadvantaged women. Strength and Stem is a social enterprise created to empower women who’ve been victims of human trafficking by teaching them skills within the floristry industry. By working with them on your wedding arrangements, you’re not only getting gorgeous florals, but also supporting women – double win!

Heart Aflutter Bridal Boutique

@heart_aflutter

Heart Aflutter are winning the bridal game in every conceivable way. Firstly, they carry a curated selection of only independent designers, meaning your dress would never be mass-made (and therefore mass-thrown away once the season ends!); secondly, said independent designers are paving the way with exciting, non-traditional designs; thirdly, they carry sizes between 8 and 22, making it a super inclusive shopping experience (as they all should be).

Alice and Rosa

@aliceandrosa

We love the growing trend for statement cakes – as in cakes that actually make a statement. Favourites include pretty much most of all the messages iced on to cakes made by US based The Sweet Feminist and right now we are also loving this boob cake by the London based and always-excellent Alice and Rosa. Why not use your wedding cake and some sweet, sweet icing skills to make a statement?

Gettin’ Hitched Rocks

@gettinhitchedrocks

Gettin’ Hitched Rocks create modern wedding stationery sets that match their swanky wedding websites (yes, you read correctly: we live in the future). Mell and her team also have loads of fab resources for couples who want to ‘stay whelmed’ during their wedding planning journey – aka staying sane and enjoying it, whilst not caving to traditions that mean nothing to you. They also have excellent gender-neutral stationery, such as their fab “Will you be my mate of honour?” cards.

There are of course so many amazing women working in the wedding industry, we’d love to hear from you who else we should know about!

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Wedding advice from Patchwork

Want the best nuggets of advice from those in the know? We’ve got some top tips from our favourite wedding suppliers to help you plan and enjoy the best day ever.

Starting with us! – “The wedding industry can be really wasteful so think about the must-haves and about hiring rather than buying lots of newness and never-to-be-used again stuff.” Olivia Knight, Patchwork Alternative Gift Registry & Honeymoon Fund

Embrace the Chaos

Wedding advice from favourite suppliers

Things may go wrong, but it really doesn’t matter. Everyone is there for you both and you’re there for one another – that’s the most important thing. Lisa Jane, Lisa Jane Photography

You are your style

Wedding advice from favourite suppliers

Be yourself and don’t be dictated by wedding trends. Do what feels right for you both. Violette Tannenbaum, Bridal Designer

Less is more

Wedding advice from favourite suppliers

The lovely people at The Fire Pit Camp say it’s simply about bringing together the people that you love, a good playlist and some yummy food. Don’t over complicate things. The Fire Pit Camp

Take time together

Wedding advice from favourite suppliers

Take a minute away from the day to be together, to see your guests enjoying themselves, and everyone you love together in one place. Jess, The Own Studio

Don’t forget to eat

Wedding advice from favourite suppliers

It may sound obvious, but with all those drinks flowing and your excitement rising, you can’t forget to eat! Keeping you partying ‘til the wee hours. Molly, We Are Planted

Drink Martinis

Wedding advice from favourite suppliers

Espresso Martinis are a great way to get the party started and everyone on the dancefloor! Mat, Ruttle & Rowe Coffee Co.

Read the contract

Wedding advice from favourite suppliers

Read the small print in all contracts to avoid any surprises and don’t be afraid to ask questions if things aren’t understood. Zeleka, Zeleka Nadine Events

Choose the one

Wedding advice from favourite suppliers

Don’t worry about seeing every cake in the country and every photographer’s gallery. Find one that you love and book it. Sarah Powell, Married by Sarah

Try all the cake

Wedding advice from favourite suppliers

Remember to eat your wedding cake on the day – savour the day and the sweet treats! Avant Garde Cake Studio

For more tips from lots of amazing wedding suppliers, head over to our Instagram and watch the video on IGTV.

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Collection of images of best wedding instagram accounts to follow in 2020

If you’re newly engaged and wanting some mouth-watering wedding inspo, then it’s time to start following some our favourite wedding Instagram accounts.

For Floral Fancies:
@underthefloralspell
For all your floral fancies, curated by Rona from @Flowerona.

For Destination Weddings: 
@thevenuereport
For further afield, check out this feed – full of amazing locations and stays.

For Lovely Lettering:
@alicegabb
A lovely lettering artist and beautiful banner maker.

For Wise Words:
@projectlove
These ladies are on a mission to help you create a life and relationship you love!

For Gorgeous Illustrations:
@rosieharbottle
A must-follow for illustrative wedding invitations.

For Party Animals:
@hooraymag
Another Aussie favourite with their go-to-guide for fun-loving wedding couples.

For Sweet Everythings:
@ard_bakery
A fashion designer turned baker who creates the most amazing and elaborate cakes.

For The Dress Quest:
@halfpennylondon
The best of British bridal with a newly launched Bridesmaid collection.

For Event Decor:
@thestyleco
Incredible event design and styling inspiration all the way from Oz.

For Graphic Goodies:
@natspaperstudio
For graphic greatness, this design and print studio is a top favourite.

For A Flower Fix:
@wormlondon
When they’re not doing the flowers for Matches, Elle Decoration and Burberry, you’ll find them making magic at weddings.

For French Style:
@themewsbridal
A beautiful boutique with the best of French bridal brands, in the heart of London and Bristol.

For Location, Location, Locations:
@cocoweddingvenues
A style-focussed wedding venue directory with lots of must-visit venues.

For Modern Photography:
@thecurries.co
The husband and wife duo who are also behind the modern wedding fayre, The Wedding Collective.

For Creativity:
@greenweddingshoes
A swoon-worthy and creative feed, full of the best wedding inspiration from all over the world.

Collection of wedding insta images asking readers to tell us their favourite accounts

For Picture Perfect:
@joannabongardphoto
All the feels for this lovely lady and her lens.

For Paper Porn:
@tuppencecollective
Botanical beauties with a range that covers wedding invites to a soon-to-launch Ikea range!

For Modern Brides:
@violettetannenbaum
Another French fancy with cool wedding dresses for unconventional brides.

For Floral Feels:
@swallowsanddamsons
A little flower shop in Sheffield with a very big following on Instagram!

For Honeymoon Inspo:
@patchwork_it
Of course! Expect lots of helpful tips, competitions and lust-worthy locations.

So there you have it – our 20 best wedding inspo instagram accounts. Drop us a message on Insta with any of your must-follows!
And, if you’re looking for an Insta-worthy honeymoon destination, then check out some of our patchwork templates for inspiration.

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Patchwork personalised We Love EU passport holder in blue leather

Need a little bit of joy on a day like today? Yay! We’re running a competition to gift two lucky winners with a covetable passport holder. In conjunction with Not Another Bill we’ve designed these limited edition We Love EU passport holders to celebrate our love and solidarity.

If your honeymoon is on the horizon, you’ll need a statement passport holder, so head to our Instagram to enter to the competition. Worth £70, the holders are made from 100% leather, embossed in gold.

Want to celebrate your marriage AND your love for the EU? Then head off on a honeymoon adventure around all 27 EU countries, stopping to enjoy a little bit of magic from each one along the way. Take a look at our EU Love Story Patchwork for more inspiration and ideas.

A Patchwork Honeymoon Fund for an EU adventure in iPad

Terms of the competition:

This competition runs from the morning of Friday 31st January until Midnight 2nd February 2020. To enter the competition you must follow Patchwork on Instagram, like the Patchwork competition post, and Tag a friend on the Instagram post.
We will notify the winner via Instagram and the Patchwork We Love EU passport holders will be sent to the winner in the post. Prizes can not be exchanged for cash.
We’re not planning to, but we do reserve the right to cancel or amend the promotion and these terms and conditions without notice in the event of a catastrophe, war, civil or military disturbance, act of God or any actual or anticipated breach of any applicable law or regulation or any other event outside of our control. It all sounds very dramatic and you’d probably notice one of these events but we’ll let you know if/when anything changes.
If you have any questions, we can be found here: [email protected]

GOOD LUCK!

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The end of November signals the coming of Black Friday; a day of massive discounts and absolute mania. Instead of getting swept up in over-consumption, mass production and unbelievable amounts of waste, we’re encouraging you to get involved with some anti-Black Friday activity instead. We’ve rounded up some of our faves to help you take a stand for the planet and for the people:

Eco-Age and Global Fashion Exchange’s #TAKEBACKBLACKFRIDAY

This year, Eco-Age have partnered with the Global Fashion Exchange to Take Back Black Friday. Take Back Black Friday is a digital protest, encouraging consumers to raise awareness and create positive impact on the day by highlighting individual acts of circularity and fashion sustainability. For example, you could attend a clothes swap and post about it on your socials, showcase items you’re repairing or upcycling before the festive season, or simply show up and stand up for the environment.

Stories Behind Things – The Big Clothes Switch (& Natalie Glaze’s Book Swap Club) and The Christmas Collective

Stories Behind Things founders Jemma and Ella have two events going on over the Black Friday weekend to help you make better, more conscious choices; on Thursday 28th November they’ve partnered with Who What Wear UK and WeWork to host The Big Clothes Switch. Take clothes you no longer wear or love and switch them for clothes you’ll never want to take off your back again. Then, from Friday 29th to Sunday 1st December, they’re hosting The Christmas Collective, a curated market full of sustainable, ethical brands to help you shop with a clear conscience.

And So To Shop’s Colourful Friday

As And So To Shop are an independent marketplace, they use Black Friday to rally against unsustainable discounts and demeaned value. Instead of offering discounts, they encourage their sellers to add something extra and meaningful into each order. This way, consumers still feel like they’re getting a great deal, but ASTS are still showing that what small businesses do is worth paying for.

Buy Me Once’s #GreenFridayFriends

Buy Me Once will be spending their Black Friday spreading a message of calm, conscious consumerism, and are encouraging people to do the same to become their Green Friday Friends.

At Patchwork our aim is to help you reject unnecessary consumerism and waste all year round; our gifting patchworks allow you to get one big thing that you really really want, rather than lots of little bits that will go to waste. You can check out our alternative gift patchworks here. Alternatively, we’ve noticed a trend this year that we absolutely love, where people are using their patchworks to spread joy and kindness in lieu of presents – we’re calling this the Give List, and you can make your own here.

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Patchwork giveaway image featuring a Choose Love t-shirt, stop buying shit you don't need poster, Patchwork tote bag, Made in India cook book, Wool and the Gang giftcard

With Christmas around the corner we’re hoping we can find new ways to connect rather than consume, to give gifts that are personal and practical, and to bring genuine joy and be good to the planet too.

This month we’re are giving away a lovely selection of prizes to one lucky winner packed in to a brilliant Patchwork tote bag. Things to be won include:

A Help Refugees ‘Choose Love’ t-shirt.

‘Made in India’ by Meera Sodha.

A £30 giftcard from Wool and the Gang.

And an A3 ‘Stop Buying Shit You Don’t Need’ poster from Patchwork.

Terms of the competition:

This competition runs from Tuesday 5th November until Midnight Thursday 7th. To enter the competition you must follow Patchwork on Instagram, like the Patchwork competition post and sign up to the Patchwork LOVES newsletter here.

We will notify the winner via Instagram and the Patchwork tote bag will be sent to the winner in the post. Prizes can not be exchanged for cash.

We’re not planning to, but we do reserve the right to cancel or amend the promotion and these terms and conditions without notice in the event of a catastrophe, war, civil or military disturbance, act of God or any actual or anticipated breach of any applicable law or regulation or any other event outside of our control. It all sounds very dramatic and you’d probably notice one of these events but we’ll let you know if/when anything changes.

If you have any questions, we can be found here:  [email protected]

GOOD LUCK!

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Patchwork loves learning giveaway

To celebrate September and all things learning Patchwork are giving away a lovely selection of prizes to one lucky winner packed in to a brilliant Patchwork tote bag. Things to be won include:

A National Art Pass – which gives the holder up to 50% off entry to major exhibitions around the UK.

The Thinker Game…designed to test your knowledge of history’s great thinkers.

A notebook, pen and set of stickies from our favourite stationers Present and Correct.

And ‘Absolutely Everything’ – a history of basically everything by Christopher Lloyd.

Terms of the competition:

This competition runs from 5pm on Monday 23rd – midnight Wednesday 25th September 2019. To enter the competition you must follow Patchwork on Instagram, like the Patchwork competition post and sign up to the Patchwork LOVES newsletter here.

We will notify the winner via Instagram and the Patchwork tote bag will be sent to the winner in the post, including all the prizes. Prizes can not be exchanged for cash.

We’re not planning to, but we do reserve the right to cancel or amend the promotion and these terms and conditions without notice in the event of a catastrophe, war, civil or military disturbance, act of God or any actual or anticipated breach of any applicable law or regulation or any other event outside of our control. It all sounds very dramatic and you’d probably notice one of these events but we’ll let you know if/when anything changes.

If you have any questions, we can be found here:  [email protected]

GOOD LUCK!

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Husband and wife team Kate and Abi run Nafisi Studios in West Sussex, where together they create beautiful, sustainable one-off commissions for the home, garden, or work place. Their mission is to combine their knowledge of heritage woodworking crafts to create something contemporary, sustainable, and of uncompromising quality. We chat to Kate to find out how they make it all work!

It’s a brave move to give up city life and start a new sustainable business with your husband, even if it is in beautiful West Sussex. What do you miss most about your old life Kate?

I liked the speed of information and conversation. It was very exciting working with lots of people from all over the world and who spoke many languages. It was a diverse bunch of people working at an insane pace of speed and this made me constantly stimulated by something – never a dull moment! Though highly addictive, and definitely unsustainable, it was quite the buzz.
Apart from that, I don’t miss much else really as all the parts I love such as the theatres, music gigs and art galleries are only 50 min away – which doesn’t feel far at all. I visit my parents and friends and they love to come here.

As seen in Country Homes & Interiors Magazine March 2019

What have you gained from the change of lifestyle?

Now, I have a calm and slow wake up routine in the morning where I don’t have to travel anywhere, or see anyone. Instead I have created a morning ritual. I make matcha tea, I put a vinyl on the record player, I walk in the garden and listen to the birds in the trees. Since I am my own boss again, I can read more and I can be outdoors in nature more.
My friends come to stay more often, so I am experiencing more quality time with them, in a peaceful space instead of in a squashed bar over a rushed cocktail on a work night.

As seen in Country Homes & Interiors Magazine March 2019
As seen in Country Homes & Interiors Magazine March 2019

You and Abi now spend a lot of time together – how do you make that work?

I love working with Abi because he is a very playful and positive person. It took a good 4 months to adjust to each other’s differing work habits. It was mostly lots of listening and exchanging, as we are each good at different things. I had to learn to be patient with the slower pace of progress in woodworking now I didn’t have my laptop, shortcut keys and software. Abdollah had to learn to delegate tasks to me now he wasn’t working alone which involves a lot of communication and explanation where he used to be able to just get on with it.
We talk about what’s working and what we can do better quite a lot to keep the conversation open. We like to focus on each others’ strengths and then play to them, it’s more constructive.

As seen in Country Homes & Interiors Magazine March 2019

What is your favourite part of the working day?

I love it when we can eat our lunch together outside in the garden, there is green everywhere we look. I enjoy listening to the same podcast or music track together over bluetooth headphones in the workshop – it’s like a silent disco for two, great fun!
We also do lots of tasks separately – Abi might be making a joint in the room next door, while I am finishing something – spray painting or sanding. I find this tactile work very meditative and soothing. And when I’m done I come into his workshop for a cup of tea and watch him work peacefully. I cherish these moments being next to him.

Tell us about your farm.

Our little cottage is a hop and a skip away from our workshop so no more long train commutes to work! We often have horses or sheep in the fields which are beautiful to look at and a little forest at the back of the workshop to go for a walk in. There are flowers, a greenhouse and chickens running around – it’s very idyllic. I am so grateful for the tranquil scenery around our farm. We have a garden at the back where we run our courses and it has been such fun to develop it together adding a pond, hammocks and this summer we’ll start to grow vegetables.

We’d love to hear about the sustainability of your business and how you make that work. How easy has it been?

We are proud to say that our workshop heating & lighting is run by 100% renewable energy because we use solar panels for the electricity and a biomass boiler to heat the whole farm.

All our wood is FSC approved (The Forest Stewardship Council) which means that it comes from sustainability managed forests. Instead of ordering new pieces of tree to be cut we mostly purchase and store offcuts from local suppliers that come in irregular shapes and sizes. It’s like a chef re-using the left overs in a kitchen to make a new meal. It takes more time to design and re-engineer a project when the wood is not cut to the correct sizes but totally worth it. We love reject wood!

As seen in Country Homes & Interiors Magazine March 2019

Wow that’s fantastic. Are there any easy switches that have reduced your carbon footprint on a personal or business level?

We have started to compost our sawdust instead of burning it. Very small offcuts are collected in a more orderly fashion in order to reuse them for small art projects. Using Able & Cole has reduced the food packaging we use – they deliver almost all of our groceries without packaging or in recyclable containers. It also saves us driving to the shops every day, instead we get one delivery a week. We eat a lot less meat now, going from daily servings to eating it once every 2 weeks due to the disproportionate amount of water and land needed to feed animals. Our local Repair Cafe in the town centre is amazing. You can fill up on your Ecover products and you can drop items off that need fixing instead of throwing them away.

As seen in Country Homes & Interiors Magazine March 2019

What would you suggest as a really beautiful and unique wedding gift?

I love our latest table commission The Sussex Table – it’s simple and elegant. The table uses a golden American oak wood locally bought as offcuts to be reused. The dark brown walnut is British grown from English Woodland Timbers. The contrast of the dark walnut centre and the warm oak is lovely.
The joint in the tables legs, is one Abdollah invented. Deriving from a traditional Japanese dovetail – he placed a dovetail inside a dovetail – very clever chap! It looks stunning.
We make anything one off from wardrobes, to garden sculpture to whole kitchens. But we love making tables the most becomes this is where people come together to commune, whether over a mini breakfast bar, an afternoon tea table or a large dining banquet. It’s a very social, interactive object and would make the ideal wedding gift to fund via Patchwork.

Thinking about other occasions – what else have people gifted?

We run a 1 Day Steam Bending Woodworking Course on our farm. Steam Bending is heating up strips of wood in a steam box and then bending them into fantastic shapes to make art works or objects of use. The technique was traditionally used to make curved wooden objects like barrels and boats.
These are fun days out in nature, for you to relax and make something with your hands from scratch. We take you into the woods to learn about types of wood suitable for bending and a bit about trees.
It’s an ideal present for a couple to learn something together and have a giggle as they go. You get to keep and take home whatever you make and lunch is included!

We have to ask you about your wedding. Where did you get married and what was the best bit?

We had a tiny family only registration day at our local town hall followed by champagne tea and baklava at home on cushions on the floor, telling shared stories and memories. Very romantic.
Then for our party, Abi and I wanted more of a festival celebration than a traditional wedding, so we set up tents, music, picnics and fairy lights in our garden and covered our 30 or so guests, with glitter and gold tattoos. I upcycled my birth-mother’s wedding dress (who passed away when I was 4 years old) paired with my martin boots and a leather jacket. I don’t think we spent over 2K on the whole thing, super simple and super fun ? My friend Aoife Baigent made us a mini video. Excellent.

Kate and Abi at Nafisi Studios wedding day

Did you ask for wedding gifts?

We didn’t want wedding gifts because our cottage is so small we can’t fit anything else inside it! We live a simple life. But we did accept contributions to our honeymoon. Hell yeah!

Where did you go on your honeymoon?

We had an epic 2 week honeymoon in Nepal, which was the best holiday of my life! We stayed in the most beautiful farm called The Adam Tribe Organic Farm near Pokhara. The owners are two wonderful people with epic food and mountain views. Highly recommend this beautiful off-the-grid farm at the feet of the Himalayas, it feels more luxurious than our cottage in West Sussex! I was very impressed with what they have achieved at such altitudes. Heaven.


Thank you Kate for allowing us a glimpse in to your beautiful workshop and your West Sussex life! We’re so happy to hear about creative people working to inspire gift giving in ways that are thoughtful, sustainable yet still desirable and aspirational.

If you’d like to ask friends and family to help fund a beautiful and unique piece of furniture as an alternative wedding present simply customise this readymade template and send out to guests.

If you’d like to commission a piece from Nafisi get in touch with Kate and Abi here.

And if you’d like to read more about sustainability in business, check out this positive piece in It’s Nice That by our friend Naresh Ramchandani who sums it up perfectly: “Whether we’re improving our workplace culture or boycotting companies that put their profit before our planet, the plan is not neat or co-ordinated… But at its heart, it asks creative people to do what we do best: make problems vivid and make answers desirable. And it’s a reason not to despair, but to be hopeful.”

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Patchwork recommends Soon the Sun

Soon the Sun is a stylish new label designed for women who like to travel far and pack light. Their essential holiday collection is made up of versatile pieces that can be pulled straight out of your hand-luggage, ready-to-wear on the beach during the day, or out for dinner at sunset. We interviewed STS Founder Pusia Chatfield to find out more.

First up, for all the super stylish women using Patchwork as a honeymoon fund, why is Soon the Sun the perfect honeymoon collection?

So much organisation and thought goes into the big day that by the time the honeymoon comes around there isn’t much space left to plan for that “What am I going to wear?!” moment. So I think “Soon the Sun” is the perfect match for the busy bride because she cares how she looks and feels but hasn’t got much time or headspace left to worry about what she’s going to take on her honeymoon, or even start to think about packing it. It’s a capsule collection made up of eight garments that answer all your holiday needs.

Ok let’s back up, why did you start Soon the Sun?

The idea came to me when I was away on holiday. I’d packed for twin boys, aged eight months, myself and half-packed for my husband too. I realised after the holiday how little I had worn, I literally had only worn a few things – my staple favourite pieces that I had always taken on holiday, that were now threadbare but still very much loved. The rest had stayed in the suitcase. This was the starting point for Soon the Sun.

What’s your design process – how do you decide what makes it in the collection?

I guess I just looked at the things in my wardrobe that I had worn over and over. They were the same pieces that came on holiday with me every year and I think this is probably what everybody else does. We tend to buy new things to take on holiday but we don’t really need or want them. These pieces that I love so much were my perfect garments, they answered all of my needs whilst on a sandy beach or in a busy market. They are lightweight, not precious fabrics, just cheesecloth – so no need to iron, easy to dry, timeless, throw on pieces, to wear from beach to bar.

What’s the difference between style and fashion?

Style stands the test of time, it’s fashion but timeless. It’s about knowing what suits you and what makes you feel comfortable – if you’re comfortable in what you’re wearing, you’ll look stylish, confident and sexy. Stylish garments are usually a combination of the right fabric, shape, fit and colour. These elements can transcend fashion trends and decades.

Your garments are all organic, using 100% natural fabrics and dyes. Why is this important to you?

I just feel there is a small but growing amount of women who are starting to think about where the things they wear (like make-up and face creams) are being produced. We worry about what we eat – we are concerned about where it’s from and how it’s produced. There’s a growing conscience. I think every new business should be concerned with the environment and aim to reduce their impact in whichever way we can.
I thought it was time we started thinking about garments, the clothes we wear on our skin. If you’re in a beautiful place then you want to feel close to nature – you’ll feel good that your garments have done as little damage to the planet as possible. Our garments are made in India with a fantastic small factory, which is a start, but we still have to ship them back here – so I’m not totally there yet.

Why should we all consider buying less and buying better?

We are taught that fashion is fast moving, and that you need to keep up with the trends. When in fact a good garment can stand the test of time and transcend eras. My favourite era was the 70s and lots of my garments have been inspired by that time. You know when you own a good piece and it comes out every year and you still love it and wish you could buy it again, that’s what Soon the Sun is about – relaxing in the knowledge that you can come back time and time again and your favourite style will be there so once you’ve loved it ’til it’s threadbare, you can come back to buy the same piece again. Not much will change except maybe a new colour. Buy what suits you and buy what you love. We encourage women to #wearlessmore. It’s much cooler.

Along with the entire STS collection what are your holiday essentials?

+ A good skin cream with 50+ factor – LA ROCHE-POSAY is excellent!
+ Sunglasses – two pairs, big ones and less over the top ones
+ No underwear, waste of packing space. Always in my swimwear anyway
+ A good read or two. Anything set in a warm climate. I love ‘My Family and Other Animals’ by Gerald Durrell
+ Maybe a “sexy book” (as my nan would say)
+ Lots of Coco de Mer
+ Good shawl for cold nights.

What songs are on your holiday playlist?

Oh man this is hard… Any Prince obvs…
Relax Your Mind – New Look (whole album) – For dreaming in the car on the way to the airport or on the beach
Everywhere – Fleetwood Mac – Driving in the car with the roof open, sunnies on, morning sun on your face, first day on the beach
Pennies from Heaven – Inner City – For dancing on the beach, reminiscent of raving days, hands in the air moment
And any jazz for when you’re home cooling off and having a chill with a glass of wine in your hand and salty snacks, looking out at the view (if you have one) or just looking at next door’s towels.


Thanks, Pusia! Is anyone else now desperate for a holiday? Well if you’re lucky enough to be off on your travels soon, you’re going to want to enter our Soon the Sun giveaway. Head to our Instagram page to be in with the chance of winning your favourite piece from the new collection. All you have to do is follow @patchwork_it and @soonthesun and comment on the post telling us which item from Soon the Sun you can’t live without before midnight on the 23rd June – good luck.
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